I have been following this story closely, like many other people. You handled yourself with admirable grace. As a freelance writer and editor, I am appalled at the behavior exhibited by Judith Griggs -- appalled, flabbergasted and truly pissed off. You weren't mean, you were actually a lot more civil than most people. When someone breaks into your home, steals your jewelry, and then you see them on the street wearing it, are you polite about it? I know I wouldn't be polite.
It is sad. She's right about that, but about nothing else. Like another poster said, she's made her bed, now she has to lie in it. You are not at fault here. You did the right thing, and I, for one, am grateful to you for doing the right thing and taking a stand.
You can see my true feelings here: www.wordwebbing.com
The drama will eventually blow over, but hopefully the core lesson will not. DO NOT STEAL MY SHIT. I WILL TELL THE INTERWEBZ AND YOU WILL BE SORRY.
"That woman" makes my teeth ache. Boo hoo, good-bye, sniff sniff.